I chose to write to people in prison. Initially I wrote to over a dozen but am now down to two. These two have been genuine and haven't been sexually suggestive, they've respected my marriage and me as a person. Both are in prison long-term but are there for non-violent crimes. This is hard work and responsibility, not all fun and games. Peoples emotions are at stake and I must be aware of their feelings and not forget to write to them. I do find it rewarding and highly educational to correspond with men who've made mistakes and are now turning their lives around. I would have liked to write to a female however the females were all looking for a love interest/sugar daddy, not a penpal.